Do you ever have questions about your relationships? Almost everyone does at some point — and that curiosity is just a part of being human.

　　One of the most basic elements of human nature is our natural curiosities, concerns, and questions about the people in our lives. Of course, we can never know everything fully and completely about the people we are hoping to relate to, so this means we will always have questions about them.

　　Sometimes we can get those answers from astrology, but astrology is only one tool. On the other hand, the Tarot is another tool that can offer insight into our relationships and add another dimension of understanding that astrology might sometimes miss.

　　So while love astrology is beneficial and essential, a relationship Tarot spread can give you immediate answers to relationship questions that you have right now.

　　Below is a love and relationship Tarot spread that can illuminate any shadows lurking in your relationships and answer many of the questions you might have about a loved one!

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A 7-Card Relationship Tarot Spread

When using this spread, bring to mind an individual you would like to examine your relationship with. This can be a romantic partner, a friend, or even a family member — all kinds of relationships can leave us with questions, after all!

　　Bring them to mind, focus on your connection as you shuffle, and pull a Tarot card for each spread position below.

　　Card 1: What is the overarching energy of our relationship in the present?Card 2: What was the overarching energy of our relationship in the past?Card 3: What do I want and expect from the relationship?Card 4: What does (name of other person) want and expect from the relationship?Card 5: How do I currently impact our relationship?Card 6: How does (name of other person) currently impact our relationship?Card 7: What is a weak spot in our relationship that I should be aware of?Are you still stumped? Below is an example of what this spread might look like in practice…

　　

Example Tarot Spread for Relationships

1. What is the overarching energy of our relationship in the present?

The Fool

The Fool represents the beginning of a new path somehow, so perhaps the relationship at hand is either new or has a “clean slate” kind of energy at the moment.

　　Nevertheless, this spread position informs us overall of what underlies the relationship as a whole and gives us context for whatever cards we may see next.

　　

2. What was the overarching energy of our relationship in the past?

The Tower

Asking about the past context of the connection in question is important because it informs us of important background that might even lend insight into the present.

　　In this case, The Tower indicates that some sort of major upheaval or life change had recently occurred for one or both parties, which can definitely affect how both are feeling in the present day.

　　

3. What do I want and expect from the relationship?

4 of Wands

Spread positions three and four in this spread show us if both parties are on the same page — or the other hand, if their interests conflict.

　　With the 4 of Wands coming up first in this example, you would be interested in creating a lasting foundation for this connection. Even in a romantic situation, this card would also emphasize the importance of a strong platonic bond supporting the stability of the connection.

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