Whatever people-pleasing tendencies, relationship narratives, or outdated patterns in partnership need to be shed, let them go. Indulge in a salt scrub in the shower and imagine your woes about connection and belonging spiraling down the drain. Burn old love notes or write an unsent letter to the frenemy that let you down. If there’s any doubt of your lovability, commit it to the funeral pyre. For every person that isn’t for you, there are scores more pining to make your acquaintance.