Over the past few years, you’ve been learning which communities are truly “your people” — and over the past few months, you’ve been reviewing your contacts list. In short, reassessing your gardening group, online book club, or circle of besties has been critical. Whether that’s meant mingling in new crews for comparison or pulling back entirely to reflect on the scene, you’re in a period of discernment. Right now and always: you get to choose how you spend your time — and with whom.