If you catch yourself trying to control the ins and outs of your social plans or attempting to play mental chess within the group dynamic today, that is your cue to take a beat and reassess. Ease up on placing a value judgment on whether or not your collective efforts are successful. More than likely, they’re a mix of things, and that’s the point. Pop the thought bubble that you know better. Give your shared goals room to breathe. That’s how spur of the moment magic happens.