Your 1:1 relationships are sparking with revelation, so schedule that check-in with your bestie or beloved. Even the people you’ve known for years have a way of surprising you now, so play 20 questions and let the discoveries roll in. Active attention is the key to tapping into the day’s magic, so pore over your partner’s texts rather than skimming them. Go deep with your therapist. Read up on your attachment style. By reframing close dynamics as vehicles for learning, you’ll build something truly lasting.