During the hustle and bustle of the holidays, it’s helpful to reflect on what is enduring. In particular, note the devoted friendships or partnerships you have had, and all they’ve offered to your life. While you’re at it, reaffirm your commitment to yourself — to your own growth, growth edges, and learning. When it feels like a lot of parts are moving, it’s best to focus on what’s held steady. That means you, your loves, and the ways you’ve taught each other.