A little stinginess isn’t always a bad thing. Today, let your purchases cool in your virtual cart — at least for a few hours. If you notice yourself spending money to fill a void, take a pause. Cross-examine the deeper motivations for instant retail gratification. And if you uncover challenging information as a result, be gentle with yourself. Double-down on your pampering and send your self-doubt packing. End the day with a gratitude list and see what shifts as you sleep.