Commit to fun. Over the next day or so, take your fantasies, fascinations, and fancies more seriously. Its not always easy for you to let your hair down and have a good time. So if it helps, think of the pursuit of delight as just that: an actual pursuit. Map out the activities that give you a dopamine rush. Track your progress in your creative hobbies. Rally an accountability buddy to giggle with. A little structure might be just what you need to woo your pleasure.