If your energy, drive, or confidence are ebbing low in your 1:1s today, don’t force it. You don’t always have to emanate charisma or curiosity to be worthy of love. Instead of trying to wrangle your motivation to make plans, lead the conversation, or tackle troublesome problems with romantic partners, best friends, or business associates, let it all go. Sometimes the most honest and productive thing to admit is that you just don’t know. Allow others to pick up the slack temporarily. You’ll be lit up with bright ideas again soon enough.