In the shifting of our tastes, it’s natural for old delights to diminish while fresh desires flicker into life. To urge this erotic evolution along, embrace the ennui. Lean in to the lethargy. Allow the jadedness to just be. Trust that everything that’s falling away is clearing space for the creative projects that are for you. The kinks that will tickle your endless fancies. The vacays that actually crack you open. And don’t be surprised if a new gang of muses gatecrashes your mind, holding gifts.