There’s nothing quite like falling into a new romance. The early infatuation, the long conversations late into the night as you slowly peel back the layers… of each other’s personalities. You’re blissfully floating on a cloud…until you unknowingly push a button that makes the new love in your life go crazy!
First fights are tough and usually unconsciously triggered. But what if you could anticipate the landmines before you walk upon them?
As usual, you can look to your trusty friend astrology to provide guidance – and to help you remain loving and cheerful as long as possible. Each sign carries a hidden trap door to what angers them most. Today we’re going to look at what truly enrages each sign – so you may step widely around them!
Crabs aren’t very likely to come right out and freak on you, but you’ll know they’re annoyed if they deliver terse, one-word answers, if they remind you of the few times you’ve done something wrong, or engage in an annoying game of passive-aggressive silliness.
Trust and loyalty are the ultimate traits needed from those close to them, so never, ever, ever lie to them – not even a fib. They’re the detectives of the group, and they’ll know! You won’t see it coming either, because they are masters of control. Vengeance is not beneath Scorpio, and if they feel you have somehow disappointed them, look out. They will find you.
That applies to anyone else they love too. Or puppies. Or the mailman. If they have started to fall in love with you and you display a high level of unkindness towards any living thing, they may not punch and hit, but you’ll pay for it in melodrama, plus lots of texts with sad emojis. Then they’ll just stop talking to you so they can be alone with their diary.
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You know those nature documentaries where a lion is just chilling under a tree and then suddenly leaps up to open an impossibly huge mouth full of sharp teeth? Yeah, it can come out of nowhere with Leos, they are gregarious and playful – until the one they love doubts them.
They’ll feel forced into a corner and will likely show you their hard-edged sarcasm before fleeing into the night. Let them think it’s their idea to commit – or even better, just accept that if they’re spending time with you or inviting you to their place time and again, you’re solid.
Unlike other more indirect signs, Aries don’t have a filter and say what’s on their mind. They are optimistic and love new challenges and coming up with great ideas, so saying, ‘no’ too many times or straight-up telling them something doesn’t make sense will exasperate them. Aries ignites quickly, but it rarely lasts long, and they don’t tend to hold a grudge.
In a relationship with an Aries? Keep an eye on the Daily Love Horoscope to get some guidance!
This composed Earth sign is the most unlikely to blow up at you, that would be distasteful to them. Virgo may send you a polite break-up letter, or, if they choose to stick around, may criticize and nitpick you for a few days until they get their ugly feelings out of their system.
This is another sign where you won’t see it coming. Reputation is highly important to them, so to damage that, or to get in the way of their carefully crafted routines or traditions could trigger them. In Caps, it might come out as resentment or the silent treatment. They are also likely to never call you again, or to find a quiet way to get you back.
Why does Capricorn get a bad rap? It’s not all true – read Top 5 Myths About the Capricorn Sign to find out where you’re going wrong.
Unless you really enrage them, you might not know they’re annoyed. They prefer not to show anger, but if you cross a line with them, well, there’s a reason for the saying, ‘a bull in a china shop.’ Taurus is the curator of the zodiac, and the objects they surround themselves with are chosen with great care. It’s considered highly offensive to mess with their things.
Librans are also justice warriors. If they catch you making fun of someone who can’t defend themselves, or you do something that comes across as taking advantage or is just plain unfair in their eyes, they will not have it. They’re more likely to talk you to death, making all kinds of points about how you have done wrong than they are to actually punch you.
Aquarius is okay to go it alone, so if you annoy them early into a relationship, they won’t have a problem calmly telling you to get lost. They would rather be alone and prove to themselves that they didn’t compromise their morals than stick it out with someone who wanted to control them.
The best way to test a Gemini’s anger trigger is to interrupt them and steal their thunder when it comes to telling a story or a secret. The sign of the Twins is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, so spinning tales in many words is at the heart of any Gemini’s bliss.
If you get a death stare from your new love, or they shoot you a biting comment after you’ve told the end of the joke or dared to ask a question while they were just about to tell the punchline/shock ending, it might be over for you. It’s not that they want to compete, but they need to know they are being heard.
It may be early in your relationship, but it can be a good idea to learn what sign they have in their 5th and 7th houses. The 5th house speaks to pleasure and the 7th to what we need from a partnership, so both can help you navigate a little easier.
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* Editor’s note: This article was previously published July 1st, 2018 and has been updated for astrological accuracy.