If questions around shared resources feel weighty right now, carve out a couple of hours to work through them with a therapist or by journaling. Vulnerably giving and receiving support can kick up the most stubborn of ghosts, so take your time as you befriend these shadows. Shine a light on your worst-case scenarios before bringing in evidence to the contrary. By sweeping your lantern over your mental blocks, you’ll be able to enter into agreements from a place of safety and regulation.