Try not to focus on the micro annoyances in your relationships today. Spoiler: It might be difficult. Even if everything feels like a red flag, take a beat. While it’s important to pay attention to sticking points in a dynamic, today supersizes easily addressed friction. If possible, write down what’s frustrating you before communicating it to your dear ones. If you do, you’ll be more able to bring a fresh perspective to your 1:1s.