For the past year, you’ve been reinforcing the structures of your collaborations. Protecting your time and energy has paid off. And it’s magnetizing the co-conspirators that support your self-advocacy. Write a list about everything helpful in your mergers—and what isn’t passing muster. Whether you’re starting a joint bank account with your beloved or a garage band with your roommates, trust your inner wise one to make your executive decisions. They’ve taken you this far.