It can be tricky to balance the needs of our committed relationships with our own goals. If you’re struggling to find that equilibrium, resist giving into doomsday narratives. Sometimes even our favorite bonds can come stacked with obligations and compromises that tire us out. Match what you do for others today with loving actions for yourself. For every errand you run for a best friend or partner, shower yourself in favorite songs, treats, or daydream time. Your ultimate responsibility is always for your own satisfaction.