The group chat is all lit up, as insights bubble over from your friendships and communities today. Pore over your social media threads and your local bulletin boards. Parse out the subtext of your brunch banter. Arrange a call with the friend you’ve been meaning to catch up with. Pose questions to your comrades that might surprise them or spark a fascinating debate. As you reframe your collective endeavors as vehicles for endless self-discovery, you’ll magnetize the people that you can build something substantial with.