Fantasy is a vital part of connection. But if you find that your idealized venison of 1:1 dynamics is bumping up against reality, pay attention. Acknowledging where you’ve gotten carried away by daydreams might not feel comfortable. But it does give you an opportunity to interrogate whether the fairy tale you’re fueling is your own, or one you’ve been sold. When you face the facts, you build relationships fueled by authenticity, care, and trust.