It’s time to get under the hood of your relationships with your beloveds. If there are clogged communication loops, patterns of self-defeat that need replacing, or outdated narratives gumming up the engine, it’s time to reassess. Outline what you observe in your journal, or initiate an honest (but kind) discussion with your love. Using simple “I feel…” statements can liberate both parties from the lure of repeating the same ol’, same ol’. Sometimes basic thoughtfulness is the best way to get things running again.