Your closest relationships are portals into electrifying self-discovery — if you’re willing to take the risk. Play 20 questions with your bestie and don’t hold back. The more bizarre the prompts, the better. Ask your beloved what vegetable, film scene, or mythical creature they would be. And make sure they elaborate. Lead with the truth, even if it’s disruptive. When you do, you remind yourself and your significant others that it’s safe to be your weird, beautiful selves.