When it comes to your committed relationships, assess how they’re growing. If your closest romantic or platonic bonds aren’t teaching you valuable lessons and expanding your sense of what’s possible, they might not be meant for you. Or they might just be in a lull. Either way, pull your focus in and get honest with yourself about what interpersonal curriculum you’re learning. Noticing which connections unlock wisdom for you and which make you feel constricted will help you redirect your attention.