As far as your closest relationships are concerned, idle chit-chat is so last year. Probing conversations are in. If you still haven’t dissected your bff’s childhood stories or played 20 questions with your beloved, use the coming weeks to get to the bottom of the greatest unsolved mysteries in your 1:1 dynamics. Your own paradigms of connection require your laser focus too, so scrutinize any narrative about love you’re carrying that’s less than kind.