If your usual fun people or activities aren’t doing it for you today, don’t read too much into it. When you’re feeling lonely or bored, the answer isn’t always throwing yourself into dating apps, socializing, or message board debriefs. You just might need to take a sacred pause and recalibrate your system. Instead of saying yes to that date you’re so-so about, give yourself some TLC. You have more to offer those around you once you’ve already offered care to yourself.