Did you know you can use an astrology compatibility calculator to understand why you get along with some friends easily and have a go of it with others? An astrological compatibility calculator can be used when you first meet someone and after you’ve known them for a long time, and it will always reveal truths that can help you understand how someone else ticks.
It can be really fun to look at the compatibility between you and your bestie because you’ll see why you fit together so well. Human behaviours are complex but we are more easy to understand when we know our own and others’ astrological profiles. Astrology offers insights into the depth of someone’s character, personal preferences, life goals and thought patterns.
Why not have your gal pals over for frozé this weekend and find out your signs? This can help you get to know each other better and really deepen your bonds. It will definitely make you laugh when you finally realize why you are all so unique and it can help you have more empathy for what someone may struggle with internally. Also, it’s pretty cool to share these secrets with your girlfriends who will then be able to understand the other people in their lives with more ease.
And don’t think that just because this article says you’re not compatible that you need to stop being friends with someone! The more you know your own personality as well as theirs, the more you can understand and respect where you see things differently. Every duo can have fun together if they realize that everyone has strengths and weaknesses and strive to respect and support each other’s goals and views. When we have the intention to be supportive of our friend’s choices and listen to what’s important to them, we can always be someone that brings happiness and love into their life.
Just knowing the elements of each sign would be a great start because you can see how that element affects their personality. Check out our article about the elements to learn more. It’s also important to realize that each sign has it’s own unique characteristics as well which make them a unique puzzle piece. Think of your closest friends and as you read this see if they have the traits mentioned. Also, see if you have already gravitated to the people we mention and had a tough time with your less compatible signs.
Leo: This confident sign relates to the confidence of Aries as they are both Fire signs. Leo is also a risk taker and likes to be the center of attention which Aries can relate to as they are always ready to take charge. Leo’s charisma attracts the similar magnetic personality of the Aries which likes to live big and bold.
Sagittarius: Sagittarius is a Fire sign that is known as the evolved soul. They are intelligent and positive with an attraction to travel and adventure. They are also known to be great communicators. They get along with Aries because of their love for new things, their love for open communication and the Aries appreciates their intelligence and how they live from their heart.
Virgo: This Earth sign is a planner and prefers cleanliness to clutter. An Aries is sometimes referred to as a hot mess because their passion creates a lot of things that are going on at once. These two signs could help each other balance out but at first, they can have trouble feeling comfortable with each other especially because Virgos tend to be polite and could get offended by blunt Aries.
Taurus: A Taurus is known for taking their time when it comes to making decisions. They may think about their major life changes for years before making a move. An Aries will quickly change jobs, homes and even relationships thought. A Taurus also has an independent streak so they don’t like being told what to do and an Aries is known to be a bit controlling or bossy.
Pisces: The Taurus is known to indulge in the pleasures of the senses just as the Water sign Pisces is known to be very present and live in their emotions. The Pisces sign is known to love love in all its forms, which is very in alignment with how the Taurus lives. A Pisces can speak openly to a Taurus without feeling judged and a Taurus can have room to be themselves without feeling controlled so it’s a good friendship.
Capricorn: The Earth sign Capricorn likes to make sure things are taken care of when it comes to having what you need. This means they are motivated to make sure everyone is secure and their future is also practically mapped out. Because Taurus likes to stick to things, they have a lot of common ground as they get long-term projects done by sticking to a routine. Capricorn is good with money and Taurus needs a lot of it to keep their environment and meals as beautiful as possible so everyone can enjoy it. They are both very caring dependable signs.
Gemini: A Gemini is known to not be able to keep their word because they say a lot and often forget or don’t finish things they start because they have so many interests. This Air sign can have a harder time meshing with a Taurus because when a Taurus says they will do something, they do it even if it isn’t really necessary. Gemini’s plans change and their lives change quickly and a Taurus isn’t comfortable with fast change.
Aquarius: The Air sign of Aquarius can be the antithesis of a Taurus. Aquarius is a big picture minded person that lives for idealism and causes. They rarely care about decorating, chatting or stop to just relax and see where the conversation leads. They often will frustrate a Taurus who likes to be present and a Taurus will often not move fast enough for the Aquarius who wants to push through all barriers to change the world.
Aries: This Fire sign thinks and talks fast just like a Gemini. They can keep up with each other so to speak. A Gemini actually likes the direct style of communication of Aries and they both get themselves in hot water when they speak without thinking sometimes so they get each other’s personalities and kind of think similarly. Aries and Gemini both are risk takers and love new experiences.
Aquarius: Aquarius is also an Air sign and likes to talk about ideas. Aquarius is similar to Gemini in that they love to travel and can change plans on a dime. Aquarius is also known to be open to befriended all different types of people like Gemini so they make great companions because of their open-mindedness.
Virgo: This Earth sign often wants to focus on details and quality instead of the variety that a Gemini seeks. They just probably find they want to spend different amounts of time talking about things, doing things and the spontaneity of a Gemini is hard for Virgo.
Scorpio: A Scorpio is known to want to go deep into conversations about emotions where a Gemini likes facts and jumps around learning a lot about many things. Their communication styles are somewhat at odds and the spiritual nature of a Scorpio may not always be of interest to a Gemini. The playful childlike nature of a Gemini may put off a serious brooding Scorpio who wants to tackle heavy issues in society.
Virgo: This sign has the same addiction to nurturing others as Cancer does which gives them a lot to talk about and they can both help each other. The Earth sign Virgo often has trouble looking out for themselves so Cancer can step in and help them whereas Cancer has the same issue and Virgo can help them get grounded and a little more practical about their own needs.
Taurus: A Cancer often neglects to take care of themselves when they care for everyone else and a Taurus knows how to treat a Cancer with love and give them some of what they know how to give others. A Cancer is big on home and family just like the Earth sign of Taurus. Home is always important to Earth signs and they both want people to feel nourished by the home.
Libra: A Libra is another Air sign that craves social interaction whereas the hypersensitive Cancer needs significant amounts of time alone to get clear with which emotions are theirs and which are not. A Cancer also bonds quickly to people whereas a Libra has a strong independence streak making their compatibility a bit tricky although they could learn major lessons from each other.
Aquarius: Aquarius is an Air sign that is so focused on the big picture they often do not form close emotional bonds which a Cancer thrives on. The Aquarius is known to be hard to pin down and rarely stays home where a Cancer feels most comfortable. They may miss each other in friendship because of the way they operate even though they are both so caring. They are kind of opposite in many ways as Cancer wants to nurture someone’s emotions and health while Aquarius wants to tackle big cultural issues and humanitarian crisis.
Gemini: The love for travel that Air sign Gemini has is similar to Leo’s lust for adventure. Gemini is also known to be one of the most playful signs, which matches the charisma and sense of humour a Leo has. A Gemini is drawn to Leo’s because they want to understand how they think and a Leo likes the attention.
Aries: While Aries can be hot-tempered, they can see themselves in their Leo friends who also often speak without thinking. They are both very confident Fire signs that want things to happen immediately and will stop at nothing to get things done. The topics and goals they have are often similar making friendship easy and natural. They respect and understand the pressure they put on themselves and both tend to be extravagant.
Taurus: Leo loves to be loved as it’s used to being in the limelight and a Taurus doesn’t need attention to feel content. Because many times Leo is found talking about themselves, Taurus won’t want to put up with it. Also because Taurus will only make decisions after careful deliberation their schedule is just too painstaking for the impatient Leo who acts first and thinks later. Fortune favours the bold yes but it also gets them into trouble is what Taurus knows.
Scorpio: Scorpio is a Water sign that is known to be intense and serious which is counter to Leo’s optimism and sometimes over the top excitement. While they are both passionate it seems one likes to play in the dark and one likes to play in the light making them an unlikely pair. A Scorpio is also very intellectually curious and loves reading while a Leo is all about experience and competition so again, they don’t have that much in common.
Cancer: This friendship bond is strong because the Water sign Cancer is a natural healer who can always help the Virgo who will forget to take care of themselves because they are so motivated to solve problems and stay busy. Since they can both scratch their itch to nurture someone while hanging out, it’s a great friendship. They also have similar core motivations and attach to people strongly.
Capricorn: This Earth sign is one of the few that has the patience to match a Virgo. They both admire quality over quantity and want to keep their word. The Capricorn is also grounded and practical making sure there is a plan for the future just like the Virgo. Capricorns and Virgos also both have a strong sense of loyalty.
Gemini: Gemini is an Air sign with so many ideas it doesn’t know what to pursue first which makes them not always follow through with all the things they start. Since Virgo is a sign that must finish things, they have trouble understanding each other. Gemini is also one of the biggest kids while Virgo is very adult-like, which puts them at odds.
Libra: A Virgo tends to be conservative because logic and reason rule their mind but the Air sign Libra is often so outside of the box that a Virgo is uncomfortable with how radical or liberal they are. A Libra will often have no plan and live from their intuition while a Virgo doesn’t operate like that.
Gemini: As an Air sign, Gemini is a natural communicator just like Libra and they both relate to people the most through conversation. They are intrinsically good at debating and speaking intellectually which doesn’t interest many of the other signs. When they get together they feel inspired which makes them a natural pair.
Sagittarius: This Fire sign is known as the evolved soul and they are naturally philosophical so their interests align with Gemini making them two peas in a pod. A Sagittarius isn’t interested in luxury or material things like a Libra as well since they are more intellectually geared.
Cancer: This Water sign needs time to retreat away from others like a crab goes into its shell, and they have trouble keeping up with the social needs of a Libra who constantly craves interactions with others. A Cancer also has melodramatic periods because of their high level of empathy whereas a Libra is almost always happy. This makes this pair an odd couple, to say the least. They are known to challenge each other.
Taurus: The Earthy Taurus like to indulge in their senses and enjoy a life of luxury which is not the case for justice-minded Libra who is more about relationships and ideas than flavours and fun. While the Taurus is also a creature of habit the Libra rarely sticks to a routine. They aren’t always going to see eye to eye.
Capricorn: This Earth sign has a serious nature like a Scorpio. They can both handle heavy topics and don’t shy away from taking on big responsibilities that help society. A Capricorn is the hardest working sign in the zodiac and that level of intensity is admired by the Scorpio who will do whatever it takes to find the truth even if they work all night.
Cancer: As a Water sign a Cancer understands the emotions that a Scorpio seeks to uncover. A Cancer can actually help explain how people behave and why because they are intuitive so they help feed the interests of Scorpios. A Cancer is also known to attach to others emotionally which means when they meet a Scorpio they get deep right away and feel that bond on a level that is only possible when two Water signs meet.
Leo: This Fire sign has the passion to match a Scorpio which means they always approach things with a go big or go home attitude. Leo’s like to be physically attractive which a Scorpio can appreciate because of their open expression of sexuality. A Leo is fearless just like a Scorpio.
Libra: A Scorpio has a serious nature whereas a Libra has the personality of a golden retriever who is always jolly. Their autopilot personalities are just very different which means they see life through different lenses. A Libra needs to be around many people whereas a Scorpio is comfortable alone or with just one person. A Libra is also known to be a people pleaser while a Scorpio wouldn’t dare to.
Leo: The Fire sign of Leo is known to be fearless, fit and love attention. That’s very much like an Aries and they also have leadership abilities that help them speak the same language. They both will not be afraid to go after what they want and make major changes in life. They also can both laugh at how they are impatient and sometimes hot-headed.
Aquarius: This Air sign is the ultimate idealist, which is only matched by Sagittarius when it comes to big thinking. These two signs are best friends because they want to help the planet evolves and they seek to use all their time to change the direction of people’s thoughts and actions to help others. They are both adventurous travellers who need to push boundaries and rebel.
Taurus: A Sagittarius doesn’t live a happy life unless they are pushing to the edges of their mind and a Taurus just wants to enjoy life which puts them at odds. Their goals are usually quite different only because their philosophies are different. Taurus wants simple joy and Sagittarius wants change. They approach everything differently.
Capricorn: This Earth sign is mostly concerned about security long-term which means they think in terms of numbers and hold a long-term vision which they will execute. A Sagittarius is more interested in learning that stability which means they may be comfortable not even knowing what the day has in store for them let alone the next ten years. Needless to say, they are singing different tunes.
Taurus: This Earth sign is reliable like a Capricorn. Both signs try to do what they say and love them some ultra luxurious lifestyles. A Taurus enjoys the company of a Capricorn because they fill each other’s needs for security and they both live in the physical world with both feet. They will have similar hobbies and tastes.
Pisces: A Capricorn is known to take care of their needs well and in many ways, a Pisces does too. A Capricorn wants to enjoy life and puts their energy into having what they want which could be said is an emotional motivation. Pisces being a Water sign will rarely deny their feelings and follow their hearts completely. If they want something they don’t feel bad about it and pursue it. A Pisces appreciates someone who does what they want. They both like relationships and put energy into them.
Leo: Capricorns take time to choose their friends and what to see their character before they let them in because they may have few friends they will keep forever. The Fire sign Leo will make many friends quickly with less of a judgmental nature but they also let go of them quickly. They just operate differently.
Sagittarius: Well trying to get a Capricorn to be friends with a Sagittarius is like mixing oil and water. A Sagittarius threatens everything a Capricorn works to establish and a Capricorn stands for things a Sagittarius wants to rebel against which are systems and structures. The rebel and the good student often find little in common.
Libra: This Air sign wants justice and equality for everyone and they spend their time buzzing from one group to the next like a busy bee stirring up ideas. These two make a great team because they both want similar things. The Libra is a great communicator, friendly and open-minded like the Aquarius.
Sagittarius: This pair can easily be best friends because they don’t really live in the physical world even though they both have bodies. They are intellectual and care about humanity all day every day so they can always find things to talk about where they feel complete and accepted by each other.
Pisces: This Water sign loves art, music, sensual things and unstructured time but an Aquarius loves executing a plan that affects major changes so they will rarely find themselves wanting to do the same thing. A Pisces like to indulge and enjoy the moment but an Aquarius is more of a workaholic. They don’t always see eye to eye.
Virgo: This is a tough match because Earthy Virgo takes it’s time to be sure every detail is looked after but an Aquarius is more concerned with fast results. A Virgo isn’t as outgoing as an Aquarius so they often like to do different things. A Virgo likes to have stable relationships but an Aquarius likes independence.
Capricorn: A Pisces likes the power of a Capricorn and are drawn to how passionately they work and use their minds. A Pisces likes to enjoy life and the way a Capricorn lives allows that to happen because they always have more than enough to make sure people can relax and not be stressed. A Capricorn likes that a Pisces appreciates what they have to offer.
Cancer: These two Water signs are highly intuitive and can almost have conversations without words. Their friendship becomes deep very quickly and they are very aware of their emotions. Both of them are sensitive so they can help each other figure out how to navigate the world.
Gemini: The Gemini is known to be a bit harsh at times and this makes love seeking Pisces nervous as the Pisces wants to maximize good feelings and not experience negativity. The Gemini is willing to look at both darkness and light to understand things but Pisces wants to stay in paradise. They just have a bit of a different way of operating.
Libra: This Air sign is always putting their own needs to the side to make others happy but a Pisces is more likely to pursue what they desire. Their core motivations are not quite in alignment. A Libra is also very intellectual whereas a Pisces is all about experience.
Using the time, date and location of birth you can compare birth charts and use your knowledge of the zodiac signs. When you have a friend for life, you often have compatibility beyond your Moon sign and your souls have come to help each other find your purpose and support each other. You can look at your Mercury for how you communicate, your Mars for your passion and your 7th house for how you approach relationships. Also, check out what each other’s Moon signs are so you know you ‘friend’s emotional needs and see how you naturally fit together.