Take the aerial view of a commitment today. Bring your bestie or beloved out for brunch and map out your wide-angle dreams on a restaurant napkin. It might feel silly to workshop the five-year plan of your relationship, but you’re likely to forge an even deeper bond once you know where it’s all headed. And if your talk leaves you with more questions than answers, just lean in to the adventure that is partnership. By embracing a spirit of philosophical detachment, you’ll learn boatloads about each other.