If your financial merges have felt a tad prickly lately, a conversation is in order. Tender spots are inevitable when sharing chores, starting a band together, or opening a joint bank account. Instead of holding your cards close to your chest, risk playing your entire hand. Embrace the vulnerability of dropping your poker face and stating your expectations with conviction. Address every elephant in the room making you anxious. Self-advocacy isn’t always comfortable, but it will build trust in your collaborations.