It’s all too easy for wires to get crossed in who is footing the bill or whose turn it is to buy the olive oil. Before you go into a frenzy of labeling your Tupperware in the communal fridge, approach these sticky conversations from a regulated place. Money issues have a way of poking our softest spots but you always have the freedom to call a time out. As the wave of frustration passes, make yourself your most precious investment. Allow your financial angst to spiral down the bathtub drain.