Notice how enthusiastically you communicate with others today, then zero-in on the specifics. Does your heart expand when you discuss art, but shut down when it comes to the stock market? Pay attention to and solicit the types of conversations that connect you to yourself. Then file what you observe away for later use. You’re extra-persuasive now — you can’t help it — so if you need to ask for a favor, make a deal, or deliver specific news, hop to it.